Welcome to If Love Hurts

You have probably found yourself here because you are in a relationship and things aren’t as you hoped they would be.

Do you find yourself feeling lonely, confused or hurting?

Do you feel as though you are going mad?

Do your partner’s words and actions make you feel unsure of yourself?

Do you feel as though you are walking on eggshells?

During my marriage, I thought that I was the only one experiencing these feelings and emotions which resulted in me not sharing them with my friends and family.  However, I now know, from talking to others, that my experiences and hurt are sadly experienced by others – both men and women – in relationships, yet they often feel alone as I did.

Here you can find information and personal accounts to help you understand why love is hurting, your own physical and emotional health, healing yourself and moving forward so that you can love life again.

If love is hurting you and nothing you have tried is working and nothing makes sense, you are in the right place.